Well there is a deeper meaning to the name, and it starts with this quote:
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Trade must not be entered into as a thing of light concern; it is called business very properly; for it is a business for life, and ought to be followed as one of the great businesses of life. I do not say the chief, but one of the great businesses of life it certainly is; trade must, I say, be worked at, not played with; he that trades in jest, will certainly break in earnest; and this is one reason, indeed, why so many tradesmen come to so hasty a conclusion of their affairs." - Daniel Defoe
This was one of the first texts I read at the "Principles and Lessons on Leadership at Harvard summer school, and yet, for me, it was mentioned almost at every class afterwards. This "Business for life" is an idea, a belief in, that to be a successful business man, one must do so with ones full dedication. I do, to some degree, agree with this idea - there are many examples, both past and present, where the best are the those individuals who commit themselves to a goal and put in the effort and sacrifice to reach it.
But as Defoe mentions, there are many versions of "life". For me there are four that I primarily want to focus on - and which have had different meaning and importance during my life.
The first "life" is family life which, for me, means the relationship you have to your family. For me, family is very important because many of my current values and beliefs come from my upbringing and relationship with my family, something I will mention in other entries.
The second "life" is my social life. For me, social life involves the time spent with your friends and the personality that you have around them. For some people, the personality that they have with their friends might be more closer to who they really am, than the personality that they have around their family
The third "life" is business life, and it's here where some arguments can be made whether school/study life is part of it. I would argue, that if you are ambitious and have an understanding of where you want to go in life, you're school life, especially your exam preparations, become a part of your business life. In Denmark, everyone has the opportunity to study what they want, until a certain level, and thus can become what they want IF they put in the effort. However, your social life is also a huge part of your study life. For me, study life have become less part of my social life, and more part of my business life, because I know where I'm going, and what it requires of me.
All of those lives equate to the fourth "life" which is perceived life; how others view you. I often hear that "you shouldn't care about what others think". That may be true in some aspects of your life (or lives) but that saying is absolutely nonsense if you have to inspire others, or is in a position of leadership. No matter how much we want to acknowledge it, people talk about other people, both in a positive and in a negative manner. If you say you want to be the captain of your football team, but don't put in the effort at practice, no one is going to follow you.
For the better part of my life it's been all social life - having fun, meeting new people, and partying...a lot. Also, I haven't given any kind of thought of my perceived life, because my excuse was "Hey, I'm student - I can be serious when I'm done". Though my grades aren't bad, and I have few regrets, I realized this summer that I was at a cross path. If you want to be something in life, you have to practice what you preach.
I want to become an entrepreneur, to be an independent man, but I also have a good relationship with my family and friends. I understand that I have to sacrifice time with my family and friends, and focus on my craft, but I will not, and must not, live a pure business life. The hardest part though, will be be to think of my reputation, and present myself in a professional and confident manner.
More entries about my journey to become an entrepreneur, and balancing my four lives, will follow. For now, it's 03.59 at Copenhagen Airport, and I'm waiting to board the plane to Munich, and then transfer to Chisinau International Airport for a exciting month in Moldova - looking forward to getting my thought out there :)